Helping people seek more authentic living

I help people define and design a life they want to live by reconnecting to their authentic selves. When we live life authentically, life improves in all areas.

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  • Seeking support and guidance from Merrett has been one of the best things I’ve done for myself. It’s always difficult taking that first step in asking for help, but from the start I’ve experienced an immediate sense of progress and empowerment as she helped me to identify, understand, and in due course overcome problems that previously seemed undefeatable. She is very easy to open up to, and genuinely accepting. So, take the first step – you won’t be sorry.

    LH, San Jose

  • I had the opportunity to work with Merrett and the advice was so good I chose to go another ten minutes. I’m really amazed at her compassion, how well she listens and understands what I am dealing with. The issues I was having with my girlfriend seemed so difficult to talk about and very complex. I was actually considering breaking up with her instead of talking to someone about it. After 30 minutes with Merrett, I understood the real issue, what I actually had control over, and what I could do to improve my relationship. Thanks to Merrett, hopefully my short-term relationship will end up long -term. I highly recommend this intelligent, down to earth woman for any difficult topics of discussion.

    David L. Fremont CA

  • I was feeling lost and even had a hard time getting out of bed some days. I was in need of some serious help. I needed advice but had no one to turn to. Then, a mutual friend recommended Merrett to me. She was a God send. She delved right into my problems and a heavy weight was lifted off my shoulders. I am now a much happier person and cannot wait to start my day. Thank you Merrett for changing my life.

    ANS, San Jose

  • Merrett has given me advice on everything from parenting to dealing with sticky situations at work. She has a gift for getting to the heart of the problem quickly and offering a clear and objective solution. She has been a useful resource for me to get advice and insight on situations that I needed sound, helpful and productive direction on. Share It with Merrett has been a valuable resource for me when I need that objective advice on a subject. I highly recommend her!!!

    Laurel, Discovery Bay

  • I highly recommend Share It with Merrett if you are looking for solutions to problems needing a quick fix. She has the expertise and credentials to support her abilities. I would use her again in a minute!

    Debbie, Sunnyvale

  • Merrett had a very unique way of helping me through more than one problem that I was grappling with over the years. Merrett was quick to ascertain the scope of the problem and what it meant to me. She combined both her keen logic and creativity when approaching the problem that needed to be solved. She did it with compassion and often was able to aid me in finding the humor in the situation, which was also helpful in ratcheting down the intensity of my own feelings regarding whatever problem I brought her. It provided me with a new perspective.

    Anonymous

  • Merrett is one of the most down to earth people I know. I’ve known her for many years, first as a client, then as a friend. I can always count on her for honest opinions, support, and common sense. Not only that, but she’s smart, funny, and fun to be with!

    Terri, Los Gatos

  • I sought out Merrett’s advice before meetings with my soon to be ex-wife during contentious divorce meetings and she would always help me keep my priorities straight and get a hold of my negative emotions. She has a straight-forward approach that really worked for me while always keeping things light and reminding me of what was important. I highly recommend you “Share It With Merrett” if you want informed, helpful advice on relationship issues.

    Ed, San Jose

  • I’ve gone through a horrible divorce and custody battle over my son. Merrett helped empower me with confidence, courage and a lot of compassion. There is nothing worse than feeling like the system is against a parent that is trying to fight for their child. But with her advice, I have overcome the system and so has my child. Life is wonderful, and I continue to see her whenever I need the best advice.

    Theresa, San Jose

about

Merrett Stufflebeem

I'm a coach, speaker, and therapist who works with adults who want to reach their potential in all areas of life but aren’t sure what that is, how to start or just need some accountability. My goal is to help you stop feeling that you aren't living to your potential and start helping you make progress towards your goals.

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Do any of the following resonate with you?

You feel lost in life ‧ You've lost the happy moments you used to have in your life ‧ You're burnt out from working too much ‧ You've lost a sense of meaning in your life ‧ You feel like something is missing in your life

If so, I'm here to help.

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I provide a warm, non-judgmental environment for you to explore all aspects of yourself, mining for both limitations and strengths to bring your best self forward. This allows you to discover what makes you special and develop your strengths for facing challenges.